哲思随笔
Philosophical Essays
Deep contemplation, meeting inner peace and wisdom
关于静默
On Silence
In this world filled with noise, silence becomes increasingly precious. We are surrounded by countless sounds: the hustle of traffic, notification tones from electronic devices, constant streams of information, people's conversations, and even our own incessant thoughts. We have hardly experienced true silence, that state of tranquility both within and without.
Silence is not merely the absence of external sound, but the stillness of the heart. When we truly sink into silence, we discover that it is not empty, but abundant. In silence, we can reconnect with our deepest essence and hear those small voices that are usually drowned out by the clamor of the outside world.
Practicing silence is an art that modern people need to relearn. Take even just ten minutes every day to turn off all electronic devices, stay away from all distractions, simply exist, just breathe, and listen to the voice within. This simple practice may bring you unexpected rewards: clear thinking, creative inspiration, emotional balance, and a deeper connection with yourself.
The wisdom that grows in silence is often more profound and lasting than insights gained in noise. Silence is like a mirror, reflecting our true selves; silence is also like a door, leading to the vast world within.
2025-4-1
时间的礼物
The Gift of Time
We often talk about the passage of time as if it were our enemy, stealing precious life from between our fingers. But if we think from a different perspective, time is actually an invaluable gift given to us.
Every sunrise, every sunset, is a gift of time. Each day, each hour, each minute we possess contains infinite possibilities. Time gives us opportunities to grow, allowing us to learn, create, love and be loved, and experience various aspects of life.
The issue is not the length of time, but how we use it. When we are fully engaged in the present, interacting sincerely with those around us, focusing on meaningful activities, we are respecting the gift of time. Conversely, when we are absent-minded, indulging in empty distractions, or troubled by past regrets and future anxieties, we are betraying this precious bestowal.
How to use time wisely is one of the most important wisdoms in life. This doesn't mean filling every moment with activity, but consciously choosing how to spend our limited days. Sometimes, the best use is sitting in meditation; sometimes, sharing stories with loved ones; sometimes, focusing on creative work; sometimes, doing nothing at all, just appreciating the beauty of life.
Today, let us view time with gratitude, cherish it, use it well, and let it become nectar nourishing our souls rather than a burden on our shoulders.
New year 2025
寻找内心的平静
Finding Inner Peace
In this noisy world, inner peace seems to have become a luxury. We are surrounded by various information, responsibilities, and expectations, leaving our minds with rare moments of tranquility. However, inner peace is not out of reach; it resides deep within us, only needing to be discovered and cultivated.
Inner peace is not about escaping reality, but maintaining inner tranquility while facing reality. It is an ability that allows us to remain clear-minded even at the center of a storm. This state is not innate, but needs to be gradually developed through daily practice.
First, we need to learn to be with ourselves. Within each busy day, set aside time to be alone, away from electronic devices, away from social media, simply engaging in dialogue with your own soul. Whether walking, meditating, or simply sitting by the window watching clouds drift by, these moments allow us to reconnect with our inner selves.
Second, accept your emotions without being controlled by them. Emotions are like weather, with sunshine and rain, which is natural. We needn't blame ourselves for feeling sad or angry, but neither should we be governed by these emotions. Learning to observe your emotions, understand their roots, and then consciously choose how to respond is key to attaining inner peace.
Finally, cultivate an attitude of gratitude and contentment. Regularly focus on the good and happiness in life, even the smallest things are worth appreciating. When we learn to be grateful, peace and satisfaction naturally arise within. Contentment is not giving up pursuit, but maintaining inner balance in the process of pursuing.
Inner peace is a lifelong practice, requiring time and patience. But every step is meaningful, and each moment of awareness brings us closer to that serene self.
2024-3-1
简单生活的艺术
The Art of Simple Living
In this complex, fast-paced world, simple living has become a precious art. We are overwhelmed by materials, information, and activities, rarely having time to stop and think about what truly matters. Simplicity doesn't mean deprivation; on the contrary, it is the refinement and purification of life, removing the excess and keeping the essence.
Simple living begins with material simplification. Examining our living spaces, we often find we've accumulated too many items we don't really need or use. These items not only occupy space but also consume our energy. Learning to let go, keeping only items that are truly useful, meaningful, or bring joy, our living spaces become more peaceful and orderly.
Next is the simplification of spiritual life. Our brains have to process vast amounts of information daily, from social media to work emails, from news to entertainment. This continuous information bombardment fragments our thinking, making it difficult to focus and contemplate. By consciously limiting information input and selectively focusing on what truly matters, our thinking becomes clearer and more profound.
Simplifying time allocation is equally important. We habitually fill our schedules with various activities, afraid to waste a single minute. However, true richness doesn't lie in how much we do, but in how much heart we put into these activities. Choosing fewer but more refined activities, leaving blank time for rest and reflection, our life experiences become deeper and more satisfying.
Ultimately, simple living is a mindset, one that focuses on the present, appreciates the ordinary, and seeks the essence. It's not about blind restraint or frugality, but consciously choosing what deserves our time, energy, and money. When we master this art, life not only becomes simpler but also richer and more profound.
Spring Festival 2024
关于失去与获得
On Loss and Gain
2023-6-8
Loss and gain in life are like the two phases of breathing, natural and inseparable. We often only see the pain of loss, overlooking the space it creates, and it's precisely this space that opens doors to new possibilities.
Each loss is an invitation for us to examine what we truly value, to let go of what no longer fits, to see the world with fresh eyes. Losing a relationship teaches us to understand the essence of love more deeply; losing an opportunity forces us to explore new paths; losing health makes us cherish what truly matters in life.
Similarly, gain is not always what we expect. Some gains appear beneficial on the surface yet may bring unexpected troubles; some come too early when we're not ready to handle them; some are things we once treasured, only to find they're not as wonderful as imagined after obtaining them.
Perhaps wisdom lies not in pursuing gain or avoiding loss, but in cultivating a balanced attitude, an ability to gracefully accept all the ups and downs of life. Whether losing or gaining, we can extract nourishment from it to foster our growth.
Eventually, we discover that what's truly valuable is not external gain or loss, but the abundance and tranquility within, that ability to maintain inner stability regardless of external changes. This inner wealth is perhaps the most precious gift in life.
2023-6-8
无常之美
The Beauty of Impermanence
The only constant in life is change itself. This ancient wisdom reveals the fundamental nature of existence. All things flow like water, never staying in one place; seasons change, flowers bloom and wither; life fluctuates with joy and sorrow, union and separation.
Facing this eternal transition, we often feel fear. We try to grasp beauty, to hold onto happiness, as if doing so could make them eternal. However, it is precisely because of limitation that things become precious; it is because of brevity that moments become touching.
In Japanese aesthetics, there is a term "mono no aware," referring to the pathos of things, and the profound beauty experienced within this melancholy. Aren't cherry blossoms so moving precisely because their blooming is so fleeting?
Accepting impermanence doesn't mean being passive or giving up. On the contrary, it is a deeper attitude toward life: it's because we understand life's brevity that we cherish the present more; it's because we know everything changes that we can maintain inner peace amid changes.
Impermanence teaches us gratitude, for we understand nothing is taken for granted; impermanence teaches us to let go, for we know nothing can be held forever in our hands; impermanence further teaches us love, for we understand the preciousness of moments together.
When we learn to appreciate life's beauty in its flow, to understand existence's meaning in change, we discover that impermanence itself is a gift.
Late Autumn 2023
倾听的艺术
The Art of Listening
In this age of information overload, we seem to be increasingly forgetting how to listen. We've grown accustomed to quick browsing, to expressing ourselves, yet we've forgotten the value of truly listening to others. Listening is not just hearing sounds, but accepting and understanding with the heart.
True listening requires our full engagement, requires us to set aside our judgments and assumptions, requires us to temporarily suspend our own thoughts to truly enter the other's world. This means we're not thinking about what to say next, not preparing how to rebut, but sincerely trying to understand the other's feelings and perspectives.
Listening is a gift, one of the most precious things we can offer others. When we listen with our hearts, we convey respect, attention, and care. This focused presence itself has healing power. How many people feel lonely in life simply because no one truly hears their inner voice?
Listening is also a mirror, reflecting ourselves. In the process of listening to others, we encounter our own biases, impatience, and unease. These are all opportunities for self-awareness and growth. When we learn to listen to others, we are also learning to listen to the voices deep within ourselves.
Practice the art of listening, starting with everyday matters. Put down your phone and fully concentrate on a friend's account of their day; truly understand the curiosity behind a child's innocent questions; quietly feel the sounds of nature, be it birdsong or rain.
This world needs more listeners. When we master the art of listening, we not only gain deeper relationships but also discover more beauty and wisdom in life.
Early Spring 2024
关于旅行
On Traveling
Why do we travel? Is it to escape the monotony of daily life, to explore unknown landscapes, or to seek inner peace? Perhaps the meaning of travel differs for each person, but one thing is common: travel changes how we see the world.
True travel is not just physical movement but a journey of the soul. When we leave familiar environments and enter strange territories, our senses are awakened, our thinking becomes sharp. Moving through different cultures, languages, and customs, our horizons are broadened, and our understanding of life becomes richer.
Travel teaches us adaptability and inclusivity. Facing different food, accommodation, and transportation, we learn to be flexible; encountering different concepts and values, we learn understanding and respect. These qualities continue to nourish our spirits after returning to daily life.
Travel also teaches us gratitude and contentment. On the journey, the beautiful scenery and kind strangers we encounter often move our hearts; temporary inconveniences and difficulties make us more appreciative of those comforts and conveniences in ordinary life that we often overlook.
Perhaps the greatest value of travel lies not in how many places we've been, but in how it changes us. As Marcel Proust said, "The real voyage of discovery consists not in seeking new landscapes, but in having new eyes." When we set out with open minds, each journey becomes an opportunity for self-discovery and growth.
Whether it's distant foreign lands or paths near home; whether it's luxurious vacations or simple hikes; whether it's a fleeting glance or a long stay, may we all find our own meaning and joy in travel.
Midsummer 2024
创造的喜悦
The Joy of Creation
Creation is one of humanity's most primal and noble impulses. From ancient cave paintings to masterpieces in modern art galleries; from a child's casual doodles to a master's carefully crafted legacy, creative activities span the entire course of human civilization.
The creative process itself is a profound joy. When we immerse ourselves in creation, time seems to stand still, external disturbances vanish, and we enter what psychologists call a "flow state." In this state, we merge with our work, experiencing a balance between focus and freedom, sensing harmony between ability and challenge.
Creation not only brings joy but also heals the mind. Through painting, writing, music, or other forms of creation, we express feelings deep within that are difficult to articulate, release pent-up energy, and reconnect with our inner world. Many find strength and courage to face life's difficulties through the creative process.
Creation is also a way of understanding the world. When we try to depict a flower, we observe its texture and color more carefully; when we write a poem about autumn, we think more deeply about the meaning of seasonal changes; when we code a program, we are rebuilding the logic of the world in another language.
Everyone has the capacity to create, though forms and expressions may differ. What matters is not how perfect the result is, but the engagement and sincerity in the process. When we let go of attachment to results, set aside concerns about others' evaluations, and create simply for the sake of creating, we experience the purest joy.
May we all reserve a space for creation in our busy lives and regularly encounter this joy that springs from the depths of our souls.
Golden Autumn 2024
友谊的智慧
The Wisdom of Friendship
Friendship is one of life's most precious gifts, enriching our experiences, warming our hearts, and witnessing our growth. In this society increasingly emphasizing individualism, the value of friendship becomes particularly important.
True friendship is built on understanding and acceptance. Between friends, there's no need for perfection or pretense; we can be our authentic selves. Before friends, our weaknesses and shortcomings don't become burdens, because sincere friendship accepts all of us, including both light and shadow.
Friendship is mutual nourishment and support. Companionship in difficult times, sharing in joyful moments, care in ordinary days—these constitute the daily fabric of friendship. Sometimes, the power of friendship exceeds our imagination: sincere listening, timely encouragement, or even a simple hug can become the strength for a friend to move forward when they need it most.
Friendship also requires wisdom to maintain. Understanding how to respect each other's boundaries, giving space for growth and mistakes, being able to communicate honestly without hurting feelings—these are key to sustaining lasting friendships. Just as a tree needs sunlight and rain, friendship needs time and heartfelt cultivation.
In this fast-paced era, true friendship becomes increasingly precious. The number of "friends" on social media might be many, but how many would answer your call at midnight? How many would walk with you when you're down? How many would guide you when you're lost?
Let us cherish those true friends who journey with us and carefully nurture these relationships, for in the long river of life, friendship is the twinkling starlight illuminating our path forward.
Deep Winter 2024
感恩的心境
The Mindset of Gratitude
Gratitude is not just a virtue, but a life attitude, a way of seeing the world. When we live with grateful hearts, the world seems to change—colors become more vibrant, human relationships warmer, life more abundant.
Gratitude begins with awareness. In busy lives, we often overlook those small yet significant blessings: morning sunshine, fresh air, health, family companionship, even the peaceful passing of a day. When we begin to consciously notice these ordinary wonders, gratitude naturally grows.
Gratitude concerns not only the good things but also challenges and difficulties. It is precisely these seemingly negative experiences that shape our resilience and wisdom. Each fall is an opportunity to learn to stand, each failure lays the groundwork for success, each pain is a catalyst for growth. Learning to be grateful for these "blessings in disguise" represents a higher level of the grateful mindset.
Gratitude is also a bridge of connection. When we sincerely thank others for their contributions and help, it's not just an expression of politeness but the foundation for building deep relationships. Gratitude lets us see each other's value, feel our mutual dependence, and thus establish more authentic, warm connections between people.
Cultivating a grateful heart is not accomplished in a day. It requires conscious practice every day: perhaps recording daily gratitude items, expressing thanks to those who've helped us, or simply stopping to appreciate the beauty before us. Through these small rituals, gratitude gradually becomes our instinctive response.
In this era of material abundance yet spiritual anxiety, a grateful heart is a good medicine, allowing us to escape the vortex of discontent and discover that life is already full of grace. If happiness has a secret, gratitude must be an important part of it.
Spring Festival 2025